Friday 7 December 2012

First Post - Cliques and Groups

Ok so I wanted my post to be about something I've never understood about high school... Cliques and groups!

Firstly, I really don't understand why everyone has to be separate and in their own groups. My high school is made up of lots of groups and when one person tries to talk to another, a war is started!

Groups...

  • Popular girls (bitchy brats with lots of money)
  • 'Wanna be popular' girls (the girls who try so hard to be popular)
  • Losers (the girls who are considered to be losers and are very strange)
  • Nerds (the smart girls who only care about studies)
  • Normal peeps (generally normal people who don't get involved)
People find that having a conversation with someone from another 'group' is extremely awkward and it can make people feel uncomfortable and unable to sustain conversation without dirty looks being exchanged and whispering! To be honest, I find it really childish and stupid but that's the way high school is!

My advice...
  1. Stay away from people who are likely to talk about you behind your back.
  2. Try and be friendly to everyone.
  3. Don't do anything/say anything that will give someone a reason to talk about you.
  4. Don't talk about people yourself.
  5. Make sure you have kind friends who wouldn't turn on you just to join another clique or group!
Thankss for reading and I hope nothing like this has ever happened to you or will ever happen to you!!
xx

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